Don’t settle for being someone’s downtime, spare-time, part-time, or sometime. True connections are not built on the convenience of others but on mutual respect and shared moments that matter. If someone cannot make space for you in their life consistently, it’s a clear sign that your value in their world is not as you deserve. You are worth more than being an option or a placeholder.
Your time, energy, and affection are precious resources. Invest them in people who recognize your worth and are willing to match your effort. Being someone’s all-the-time doesn’t mean a suffocating, constant presence. It means being a priority in their life, in their decisions, and in their heart, regardless of how busy life may get.
The truth is, we make time for what—and who—is important to us. Excuses are easy; commitment is hard. It requires effort, understanding, and, most importantly, a mutual desire to be present for each other. Look for relationships that offer stability and consistency, where you feel valued and important, not just when it’s convenient for them but because they genuinely want you in their life.
This journey of self-respect starts with setting boundaries and understanding your worth. Don’t compromise your self-worth for temporary affection or intermittent attention. You deserve someone who is there for you, someone who values your time as much as you value theirs. Remember, a relationship is a two-way street; it thrives on reciprocity, respect, and genuine affection.
So, hold out for the one who wants to be with you, through every season, at every hour. Someone who understands that you’re not just killing time, but making memories that last a lifetime. You’re worth more than just being someone’s sometime. You deserve to be someone’s all the time.
