I don’t even know where to begin, but here it goes. From the start, my stepdaughter made it clear she chose her biological dad over me. She once told me straight to my face, “Stay away. I don’t need you.” It stung, but I accepted it.
Fast-forward a few years — my wife insisted I still pay for her college expenses. So I did. Tuition, dorm fees, everything. I covered it all because my wife believed it was the right thing to do.
Then graduation day came. She looked me in the eye and said, “You’re not welcome. Don’t even try to show up.” No warning, no conversation — just complete rejection. That moment broke something in me.
So, without warning, I cut off all financial support. My thinking was simple: if I’m not her dad, then her real dad can step in. But he couldn’t. And the truth is, I just couldn’t keep pouring money into someone who openly despised me.
My wife demanded I continue paying, but I chose my pride. Now? My stepdaughter barely speaks to me.
But honestly, I don’t care anymore, because before all of this, she wasn’t really talkative with me. My wife says she regrets how things went down, but my stepdaughter has never apologized. We barely talk about this topic.
I keep thinking maybe I went too far…or maybe I finally drew a line I needed to. But I also feel like I was done being treated like a doormat.
Did I handle this the wrong way, or was cutting her off justified?
Source: brightside.me