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    My father Never Said ‘I Love You’ — He just handed me the right wrench when I needed it

    Vase MyBy Vase MyJuly 31, 2025Updated:July 31, 20255 Mins Read
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    The first time I burned my skin on hot steel, I was six.

    It was early summer in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. The pavement was cracked and sweating under our knees, and I had just seared my tiny fingers on the exhaust manifold of a ’72 Dodge Dart. I yelped — loud. The pain was instant, raw. My eyes welled.

    But my father didn’t flinch.

    He didn’t say a word. Just wiped his blackened hands on a scarlet shop rag, glanced at me with a look that wasn’t unkind — just… steady — and said, “Now you know. Don’t touch hot metal.”

    Then he disappeared back under the car, leaving me stunned by both the sting and the silence.

    That was love, his way. Practical. Wordless. Calloused.

    Our garage was nothing special — a tin box stitched to the side of our house, echoing with every gust of wind and groaning pipe. Summers were sweat-soaked and suffocating. Winters? We could see our breath while we worked. But it was ours. Tools lined the walls like sacred relics, every one hung with religious precision. God help you if you misplaced the socket set.

    My father, Earl, was a mechanic at Walt’s Auto — 41 years in the same shop, the same oil-stained overalls, and the same stubborn pride. The kind of man who knew the difference between a knock and a rattle by sound alone.

    He didn’t talk much — unless the engine was running.

    But he taught me everything beneath those hoods. Not with lectures. Not with instruction manuals. Just with time, repetition, and the kind of patience that doesn’t feel like kindness until years later.

    There’s one day that never leaves me — burned deeper than that first scar.

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    It was the summer of ’92. I was thirteen and full of attitude, convinced I knew better than the man who spent his life with grease under his nails.

    We were working on his car. A ‘67 Mustang fastback. His pride. His project. His ghost of a dream.

    That day, he handed me the drain plug. “Don’t overtighten it,” he said.

    Of course I did. I cranked that bolt like I was trying to weld it shut. Stripped the threads clean off.

    He stared at me, eyes heavy.

    But he didn’t yell. Didn’t scold.

    He simply exhaled and said, “Sometimes, son, you gotta know when to stop turning.”

    I didn’t get it.

    Not then.

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    But over time, I realized he wasn’t talking about the bolt. He was talking about everything — pride, anger, grief, even love. There’s a moment when pushing too hard only breaks things.

    I left when I turned eighteen. Got a job in Des Moines — an office, ties, clean hands. Coffee that came from machines, not stained thermoses. I stopped calling as much. Sent birthday cards late.

    He never said a word about it.

    But whenever I visited, that Mustang was always there. Still up on jack stands. Still waiting. Like he was saving a bolt for me to turn.

    Then came the call.

    A neighbor found him under a Buick, wrench still in his hand. Heart gave out. Quick, they said.

    I drove back in silence. When I walked into the garage, it felt frozen in time — the last cigarette stubbed out in a tuna can, the radio mumbling Merle Haggard. The Mustang still waited with its hood propped open.

    There was a note taped inside.

    “Oil’s drained. Pan’s clean. Needs fillin’.”

    I collapsed on the cold concrete, sobbing. Not because of what was lost — but because I finally understood what he’d been giving me all along.

    It took weeks to sort through his tools. Each one was a memory — the hammer that helped rebuild the shed after Mom died. The torque wrench labeled Tim’s first oil change in faded Sharpie. A jar full of mismatched washers, screws, and what he used to call “maybe somedays.”

    I kept the garage. Even after we sold the house. Couldn’t let go.

    Now, every Sunday, I bring my son there. He’s seven. Doesn’t know a wrench from a water pump yet, but he’s curious. Eager. He hands me the wrong tool most of the time.

    But I never correct him too harshly.

    I let him learn the way I did — in silence, in time, with the space to make mistakes and figure out how to fix them.

    Because that’s what my father gave me.

    And maybe one day, when I’m gone, and my boy finds himself beneath a car with a child by his side, he’ll hear me — not in words, but in the click of a socket wrench, the scent of motor oil, the steady rhythm of doing something right.

    Because love doesn’t always come with hugs and I-love-yous.

    Sometimes, it just sounds like the quiet clink of metal in the right hand at the right time.

    And that’s enough to carry a lifetime.

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