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    6 Surprising Predictors of Divorce You Probably Overlooked

    Rodei MyBy Rodei MyOctober 1, 20253 Mins Read
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    Not all struggling marriages begin with dramatic fights or outright betrayals. Sometimes the signs are much more subtle—hidden in daily routines, small habits, or even in what isn’t said aloud.

    While most people watch for obvious red flags, experts point to lesser-known signals that can quietly predict a marriage’s decline long before it reaches a breaking point.

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    You never discussed family plans in advance

    Not everyone who wants marriage envisions children. And even when both partners do, there are deeper conversations to be had: parenting approaches, how to handle possible disabilities, or how to respond if children grow up with values or identities that differ from expectations.

    The “Hollywood romance” at the start

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    A whirlwind beginning may feel like the recipe for lasting love, but studies suggest otherwise. Relationships that start with intense, fairytale-like passion often struggle to sustain that energy. When the honeymoon glow fades—as it inevitably does—couples can mistake this natural shift for a loss of love. Ironically, relationships that begin at a slower, steadier pace, without the cinematic drama, tend to build stronger foundations and last longer.

    Avoiding conflict

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    It might seem like avoiding arguments is a sign of a healthy relationship, but in reality, it can be a silent marriage killer. Sweeping problems under the rug doesn’t make them disappear—it allows resentment to build over time.

    If you’re constantly swallowing your feelings to keep the peace, you might be sacrificing your own needs and emotional well-being, which can ultimately erode the foundation of your marriage.

    Not considering a “sleep divorce”

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    Sharing a bed is often seen as non-negotiable, yet for some couples it becomes a source of strain. Conflicting sleep schedules, snoring, or restlessness can lead to poor sleep—fueling irritability and resentment.

    Experts often recommend a “sleep divorce,” or sleeping separately, as a healthy solution for couples struggling at night. Despite its name, this doesn’t signal marital failure—it’s a practical way to ensure both partners get the rest they need to thrive together during the day.

    You no longer look forward to being together

    Marriage is built not only on love but also on friendship and companionship. Independent hobbies and alone time are healthy, but it’s a warning sign when one or both partners begin actively avoiding time together. If date nights, conversations, or even casual moments feel like a chore instead of a joy, it can point to emotional disconnection. Without shared interests or a desire to be in each other’s company, the relationship can start to feel more like an obligation than a partnership.

    You never had honest conversations about money

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    Like chores, household expenses should be considered shared responsibilities. Couples must discuss how they plan to split the bills, depending on their salaries. Money talk should also include their outstanding debts and financial goals.

    Partners must always be honest about money matters to avoid trust issues. The American Psychological Association shares tips on avoiding financial arguments, which include sitting down regularly to review expenses and savings plans.

    Source: nowiveseeneverything.club

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